When his internet date ended their relationship, Mathew Dallimore continued to hound the woman with texts and letters, pleading for her to reconsider.
The 34-year-old, of Jamiesons Court, Kelso, admitted engaging in a course of conduct which caused his former partner fear and alarm in Kelso and Coldstream between July 12 and 23.
“This was an unfortunate episode of internet dating which went badly wrong,” explained procurator fiscal Graham Fraser at Jedburgh Sheriff Court on Monday.
The fiscal added: “He met the 24-year-old woman online and on July 12 she ended their relationship, and he was not happy at that. He turned up at her place of work and asked to speak to her outside, continuing to plead for a reconciliation.
“He was not prepared to accept the relationship had ended and sent her 34 texts on July 12.”
Mr Fraser said the accused posted on Facebook, and sent letters and packages to the woman’s home. He also went to a pub in Coldstream and spoke to a member of staff there, showing her a picture of the woman and asking if they were friends.
The worker was concerned about this and told the woman what had happened.
Police spoke to Dallimore on July 14 and warned him to leave the woman alone.
Dallimore personally delivered a letter to her home address, pleading for her to rekindle the relationship. He also sent her a parcel which contained a “selfie” picture, taken from her Facebook page.
“This picture was taken before the relationship had started,” said Mr Fraser.
“He had been putting pictures of her up on his wall and he also created a false profile on Facebook, and continued to plead with her not to let the relationship continue. She was very distressed by all of this and went back to the police.”
Mr Fraser said there had been nothing abusive in the messages Dallimore sent, but the volume was concerning.
He told police: “I should have stopped contacting her.”
Mat Patrick, defending, said his client had not contacted the woman since July 26, adding: “That is evidence that he realises that it would be inappropriate and he has taken serious measures to avoid coming into contact with her.”
Dallimore was sentenced to a community payback order with supervision, and an 18-month non-harassment order was also imposed.
Sheriff Ian Anderson warned him that the sentence was a direct alternative to custody.
DEFERRED SENTENCE
A woman was alarmed when a stranger approached her in the bar of a bowling club and laid his head on her chest.
The 34-year-old had been enjoying a night out at Gordon Bowling Club when the offence happened.
First offender Michael Oliver, 40, of East Gordon Farm Cottage, Gordon, admitted committing the crime on June 12/13.
Oliver’s solicitor, Ross Dow, said his client had been persuaded to go out during the local civic week celebrations.
“A mixture of alcohol and medication led to him having no memory of this. He has lived in the village for 11 years, but because of his acrophobia, was a stranger,” he added.
Sheriff Ian Anderson described the offence as “an unusual case” and deferred sentence until October 31 for reports and a restriction of liberty assessment.
CONTINUED WITHOUT PLEA
A prisoner has been accused of threatening a custody officer in sheriff court cells.
Rory Morrison, 29, of Talisman Avenue, Galashiels, appeared from custody at Jedburgh Sheriff Court on Monday.
He is charged with recklessly breaking a counter in the cells area of Selkirk Sheriff Court on April 14 and having an offensive weapon (a perspex sheet). Morrison is also alleged to have used threatening or abusive behaviour, brandished a perspex sheet and threatened G4S staff.
The case was continued without plea until October 24 at Selkirk Sheriff Court.
MAN FACES SEX ASSAULT TRIAL
A Jedburgh man who denies sexually assaulting a woman will stand trial on November 1.
Kevin Swan, 48, of Grieve Avenue, is said to have touched a woman’s breast under her clothing in Jedburgh on April 23. He also denies repeatedly sending the woman text messages, asking her to send him pictures of her breasts.
BENEFITS ALLEGATION
A woman has been accused of receiving £5,828 in benefits to which she was not entitled.
Caroline Bell, 28, of Eccles Tofts, Greenlaw, is charged with failing to notify a change in circumstances regarding her partner’s increased earnings and receipt of housing and council tax benefit. The offence is said to have been committed between February 2013 and July 2014.
She has pleaded not guilty and will stand trial on November 3.
CANNABIS CHARGE
A Duns man denies being concerned in the supply of cannabis in the town.
Andrew Douglas, 22, of Teindhill Green, is alleged to have committed the crime at his home and at The Mount on May 4.
He is due to stand trial on November 1, and a further intermediate hearing was set for October 17.
NOVEMBER
TRIAL DATE
A Newcastleton man will stand trial over an alleged bust-up with a neighbour.
John Campbell, 53, of Whisgills, pleaded not guilty to conducting himself in a disorderly manner, shouting and swearing, using abusive language, cutting down hedging without the owner’s consent and brandishing a strimmer.
He denies committing a breach of the peace at a house in the Whisgills area on July 18.
A trial date was fixed for November 1.
ATTACK
CLAIM
Two women who deny assaulting another woman in Kelso will stand trial on November 3.
Donna Rowley, 34, of Burn Wynd, Jedburgh, and Jade McCann, 30, of Inchmyre, Kelso, both deny repeatedly striking a woman to the head and body to her injury at Maxmill Park on August 8.
They also deny threatening or abusive behaviour, and repeatedly shouting and swearing.
STOLE TO FUND GAMBLING HABIT
A painter and decorator stole money and jewellery to fund his gambling habit.
Terry West, 68, of Mansfield Court, Kelso, admitted committing the theft while employed at a house at The Tofts, Kelso, on May 21.
Procurator fiscal Graham Fraser said there had been full recovery of the £920 theft.
Ross Dow, defending, said: “The only good thing to come out of this is that he has never gambled since. At the time he had a gambling problem which had been going on for about a year.”
Sentence was deferred until October 31 for reports.
DENIES NAKED POSTS THREAT
A Chirnside man has been accused of threatening to post naked images of his partner on the internet.
Andrew Frizzell, 30, of Lammerview, denies threatening or abusive behaviour at a house at Windram Road, Chirnside, on September 2.
He will stand trial on December 15, with an intermediate hearing on November 14.
Frizzell was granted bail with a condition not to enter Windram Road or to approach his partner.
WOMAN BIT POLICE OFFICERS
Sentence has been deferred on a Hawick woman who bit two police officers during a disturbance.
Emma Stewart, 23, of Trinity Street, pleaded guilty to the offences which happened in North Bridge Street, Hawick, on April 20.
She bit one constable on the body to his injury and also assaulted another officer by biting him on the body, and spat blood at him.
Sheriff Ian Anderson deferred sentence until October 31 for reports and a restriction of liberty assessment.
COCAINE
CRIME
A Hawick man has admitted being concerned in the supply of cocaine.
David Manson, 28, of Silverbuthall Road, committed the offence at his home on July 22.
A not guilty plea from co-accused Chelsea Yardley, 25, of the same address, was accepted by the Crown.
Manson had sentence deferred until October 31 for reports and bail was continued.
NOT-GUILTY PLEA TO BGH CHARGE
A Hawick woman who denies threatening or abusive behaviour at the Borders General Hospital on August 25 will stand trial on November 3.
Karen Turner, 30, of Beaconsfield Terrace, also pleaded not guilty to assaulting a police officer there by kicking her on the leg. Turner further denies assaulting three people at Howegate, Hawick, on August 13, shouting and swearing, and challenging others to fight.
DENIES CAUSING FEAR AND ALARM
A man has denied causing his ex-partner fear and alarm.
Ian Ramsay, 43, of Ladyrig View, Heiton, is alleged to have persistently sent the woman messages, attempted to reconcile and threatened to expose her on social media at Fisher Avenue, Hawick, between August 11 and 14.
He will stand trial on November 1.
FOX-HUNTING ALLEGATION
Two men have been charged with deliberately hunting a fox with a pack of dogs.
Jonathan Riley, 23, and 66-year-old John Richardson, both of The Kennels, Abbotrule, Bonchester Bridge, are charged with deliberately hunting a wild mammal on land surrounding Townfoot Hil, near Swinside, Townfoot, Jedburgh, on February 18.
Their case was continued without a plea until October 17.
POLICE SNIFFED OUT OFFENDER
When police officers opened his car door to speak to Jack McKinlay, they could smell cannabis.
The 19-year-old, of Millburn Park, Lauder, admitted possession of the illegal drug at Scotts View, Earlston, on June 18.
“Police saw a Subaru Impreza parked at Scotts View, with the inside light on,” explained procurator fiscal Graham Fraser.
He added: “They went to speak to the driver and when they opened the door could smell cannabis.”
Some 13gms of the illegal drug, worth £130, was found in the car.
“His attitude was that he was a complete idiot, and he was very co-operative,” added Mr Fraser.
Defence solicitor Ed Hulme said his client, a farm worker, had a “personal amount” of the illegal drug.
“He is very apologetic and tells me this has scared him off using cannabis,” said Mr Hulme.
A fine of £300 was imposed on the teenager.
L DRIVER ALMOST FOUR TIMES LIMIT
A provisional licence holder who was almost four times the alcohol limit was banned from the road at Jedburgh Sheriff Court on Monday.
Suzanne Murphy, 31, of Queens Drive, Hawick, admitted driving a car in the town’s Eildon Road on September 18 with a breath/alcohol reading of 83 mcgs – the legal limit being 22. She also pleaded guilty to driving without supervision or L plates.
Prosecutor Graham Fraser said police saw Murphy driving out of a street near her home shortly after midnight.
He added: “She pulled over and as they drove past they realised she was only a provisional licence holder and was alone in the car.
“They went to speak to her and it was immediately obvious that she had been drinking. She was approaching four times the limit.”
Ross Dow, defending, said his client had only driven about 400 yards and that the mother of three had held a provisional driving licence for some 10 years.
“She has been getting lessons,” he added.
“She accepts it is a high reading and deeply regrets taking a chance, which is what she did,” concluded Mr Dow.
Sheriff Ian Anderson imposed an interim driving ban and deferred sentence until October 31 for reports.
DRINK-DRIVER WAS CUT FREE
A drink-driver had to be cut free from the wreckage of her car after landing in a field.
First offender Katriona Haig, 20, of Priors Meadow, Jedburgh, admitted driving a car near Crailing on June 12 with a blood/alcohol reading of 81 mgms – the legal limit being 50.
Police were contacted at around 5am about an accident where a woman was trapped in her car in a field. Emergency services attended and Haig had to be cut free. She was taken to hospital suffering from a head injury and bruising.
“Five hours after the crash, a blood sample showed she was 60% over the alcohol limit,” said Graham Fraser, prosecuting.
Haig’s solicitor said her client had made a stupid mistake, adding: “She had been drinking with friends and thought she would be okay to drive. She is at a loss to explain how the accident happened.”
Haig, a customer services adviser, was fined £400 and banned from driving for 12 months.
DRUNK MAN HAD KNIFE
A drunken Hawick man was seen by neighbours wandering around a car park late at night with a knife.
Thomas Laidlaw, 64, of Wilton Crescent, admitted having a knife in Wilton Crescent on June 1.
Prosecutor Graham Fraser said: “A neighbour became aware of a man falling about between cars and the accused said he was intoxicated. He was ushered away and it was then noticed he had a knife in his hand. It had a six-inch blade and a five-inch handle.
“It was not used, but he should never have been in possession of it, particularly when he was so drunk.”
His lawyer said: “It is his position that he was going to let the air out of some tyres. It’s an odd set of circumstances.”
Laidlaw was given a 12-month community payback order, with supervision.
THREATENED TO STAB PEOPLE
A drunken man who brandished knives and threatened to stab people in Hawick has been sentenced to a community payback order, with 80 hours of unpaid work.
Joseph Adams, 44, of Ramsay Road, Hawick, admitted behaving in a threatening or abusive manner at Ramsay Road on August 27, and having two kitchen knives in his possession.
“It was 11.15pm on a Saturday evening and he was heard shouting and bawling by a number of neighbours,” said prosecutor Graham Fraser, adding: “He was threatening to stab people and had two kitchen knives. He was also seen trying to kick a door and punching a gas meter.”
Mr Fraser said Adams was drunk, and was being threatening and abusive. Witnesses were “shaken” by the accused’s behaviour.
Adams shouted: “You f*****g b*****d, I’ll f*****g kill you, I’ll f*****g knife you.”
He told police officers: “I can’t remember. I’m bloody ashamed.”
Defence solicitor Mat Patrick said: “He very unwisely accepted an offer of unknown drugs from two people earlier that day. That, on top of the alcohol, led to him acting as he did.”
ASSAULT ALLEGATION
A Kelso woman who denies assaulting another woman in the town will stand trial on December 13.
Susanne McDermott, 33, of James Stewart Court, is alleged to have barged into a woman at Farrier Court, spat on her, seized her head, struggled with her and bit her on the body, to her injury, on June 13.
An intermediate hearing was set for November 14.
INDECENCY CHARGE
A 38-year-old man who denies public indecency will stand trial on October 18.
James Horsburgh, of Cavers View, Hawick, denies masturbating underneath his clothing at Dickson Street, Hawick, on May 29.
PERSONAL APPEARANCE
A Peebles man who breached a bail condition has had sentence deferred until October 17 to appear personally.
David Horsburgh, 51, of Waverley Way, admitted breaking a condition not to contact a woman when in her company at Bank Street, Galashiels, on August 21.
NOVEMBER
TRIAL DATE
A man accused of having an offensive weapon at St Leonard’s Park, Hawick, on June 10 will stand trial on November 3.
Joshua Chalmers, 23, of Wellogate Brae, Hawick, denies having a glass beer bottle and behaving in a threatening or abusive manner by shouting and swearing.
He further denies struggling violently with police.
OFFENDER ADMONISHED
A man who used racially-abusive language has been admonished.
Liam Young, 25, had been of good behaviour during nine months of deferred sentence.
Young, of Bourtree Bank, Hawick, admitted the offence which happened in Hawick High Street on April 29 last year.
DENIES BAIL BREACH
A Galashiels man who denies breaching a bail order not to contact three women will stand trial at Selkirk Sheriff Court on October 27.
Robert Thomson, 55, of Torwoodlee Road, who appeared from custody, also had an intermediate hearing set for October 10.